Brezsny asked his friends to come up with some ideas for his catalog of cagey optimism. We could do with a little of that around here, no? I was wondering if anyone might want to contribute to his list. Seems like he's off to a good start...
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CATALOG OF CAGEY OPTIMISM
Psychiatry and psychotherapy obsess on what's wrong with people and
give short shrift to what's right. The manual of these professions is a
943-page textbook called the DSM-IV. It identifies scores of pathological
states but no healthy ones. [I'm out to change that, here are some ideas:]
* MODULATED RAPTURISM. Welcoming miracles and peak experiences in
full awareness that the growth they initiate will require sober commitment
and disciplined work to complete. (Suggested by Timothy S. Wallace.)
* NONRESENTMENT SYNDROME. Having an ability to be friendly, open, and
helpful to people with whom you disagree.
* NOT HAVING TO BE RIGHT. Fostering an ability, even a willingness, to be
proven wrong about one of your initial perceptions or pet theories; having
an eagerness to gather information that may change your mind about
something you have fervently believed; cultivating a tendency to enjoy
being corrected, especially about ideas that are negative or hostile.
(Suggested by Sheila Kollasch.)
* ORGIASTIC LUCIDITY. Experiencing an expansive and intricate state of
clarity while in the midst of extreme sensual pleasure.
* PERMANENT DIVINE INFATUATION. Having not the abstract
understanding but rather a direction perception that the Divine
Intelligence, who recreates the universe fresh every moment, is deeply in
love with you, even as you are in love with the Divine Intelligence.
* RADICAL CURIOSITY. Characterized by the following traits: an
enthusiasm for the mystery embedded in the mundane; a preference for
questions over answers; an aversion to stereotyping, generalizations, and
jumping to conclusions; a belief that people are unsolvable puzzles; an
inclination to be unafraid of both change and absence of change; a strong
drive to avoid boredom; a lack of interest in possessing or dominating
what you are curious about. (Suggested by Laurie Burton.)
* RELENTLESS UNPRETENTIOUSNESS. Possessing a strong determination
to not take yourself too seriously, not take your cherished beliefs too
literally, and not take other people's ideas about you too personally.
* RIPE INTELLECTION. The understanding that a predilection to notice and
analyze pathology is itself pathological. (Suggested by Timothy S.
Wallace.)
* ROOTED IN ETERNITY. The state of knowing that your true identity is
deeper than the constant chatter of thoughts, images, and feelings that
swirls through your mind. (Suggested by Crispin R.)
* SACRED PERCEPTIVENESS. Seeing others for who they really are, in both
their immaturity and genius, and articulating your insights to them with
care.
* SCARY-THUNDER-IN-THE-DARK HAPPINESS. Feeling deliciously safe in a
well-protected sanctuary during a severe storm. (Suggested by Sue Carol
Robinson.)
* SCHIZOFRIENDIA. Hearing voices in your head that are constantly
supportive, encouraging, and keen to offer advice that helps you make
the most of every experience. (Suggested by Lewis.)
* SELF-ACCEPTANCE UNDER PRESSURE. The state achieved upon leaving a
room filled with people who know you, and not worrying about what
anyone will say about you. (Suggested by Shannen Davis.)
* SELF-HONORING. Having an unwillingness to disparage, belittle, or hurt
yourself; includes a taboo against speaking phrases like, "I'm such an
idiot!" and "What's wrong with me?" (Suggested by Julie Levin.)
* SLY TRUST. Having a discerning faith that the integrity of your efforts
will inevitably lead to a result that's exactly what you need; being skillful
in the art of never trying too hard. (Suggested by Rhonda Christmas.)
* SONGBIRD-IN-A-TREE. The cultivated awareness that daily life presents
countless opportunities to be buoyed by moments of ordinary
extraordinary beauty, and that these moments are most available if you
perceive with your senses and not with your internal turmoil. (Suggested
by Lisa Chabot.)
* TENDER RAGE. Maintaining a strong sense of love and protectiveness
towards a person or creature or institution you're angry at.
* TRANSCONSUMERISM. An absence of tendencies to predicate
happiness on acquiring material possessions. (Suggested by Timothy S.
Wallace.)
* TRIUMPHANT NURTURING. Feeling contented expansiveness while
nursing a baby. (Suggested by Susan E. Nace.)
* UNSELFCONSCIOUSNESS. Doing what you're doing and being who you're
being without thinking about it at all. Being happy by virtue of not
worrying about whether or not you're happy; enjoying a unified state in
which you are not split between the you who acts and the you who
observes. (Suggested by Valerie Keller.)
* UNTWEAKABILITY. Having a composed, blame-free readiness to correct
false impressions when your actions have been misunderstood and have
led to awkward consequences.
* VIRTUOSO INTEGRATION. Consistently walking your talk; effectively
translating your ideals into the specific actions; creating results that are
congruous with your intentions; being free of hypocrisy.
* VISIONS OF THRILLING EXPLOITS. Experiencing an eruption of intuition
that clearly reveals you will attempt a certain adventure in the future, as
when you spy a particular mountain for the first time and know you'll
climb it one day. (Suggested by Sue Carol Robinson.)
* WEATHER SENSITIVITY. Having a high degree of awareness about your
sensitivity to changes in the weather, and having a skill for managing your
responses to those shifts so as to consistently bring out the best in
yourself. (Suggested by Julie Caves.)
* WHOLEHEARTEDNESS. Having the capacity to give, on a moment's
notice, your complete attention, empathy, and playful intelligence to any
person or circumstance you choose. (Suggested by Susan Coleman.)
* WILD DISCIPLINE. Possessing a talent for creating a kind of organization
that's liberating; knowing how to introduce limitations into a situation in
such a way that everyone involved is empowered to express his or her
unique genius; having an ability to discern hidden order within a seemingly
chaotic mess.
* WHEEEE. A serenely boisterous intensely focused chaos of communion
with streaming fountains of liquid light hurtling softly through the giggly
upbeat tender assurance that all is well and a mysterious unimaginable
intelligence is magnetizing us forward into ever-more wonderful throbs of
naked truth that bestow the humble happy sight of life as a river of
fantastically lucky artful change flowing through us forever. (Suggested
by Sarah Alexander and Jon Kohl Drucker.)
