The Hopeless Complexity of Relating

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[Jana]

    * Empress (upright): The virgin/mother goddess of abundance and love.
    * Emperor (upright): The loving benevolent father god of power and virtue. 
    * Empress (reversed): The smothering spider mother who consumes all.
    * Emperor (reversed ): The domineering, selfish and irrational father.

The upright Emperor and Empress, the King and Queen...the royal couple is the Mysterium conjunctus...the sacred marriage. It is interesting that if you try to have a relationship with an individual who is coming more from a child position and is unwilling to stand in their sovereignty...then it is hard for you to stand in your sovereignty also...you are too busy being a parent. We heal the mis-marriage of our ancestory through the burning heat of the heart in sublime relationship. Such love will not tolerate the energies of the smothering spider mother who consumes all or the domineering, selfish and irrational father. Through the burning heart of the upright King and Queen the patriarchy is undone.

[Jana]

Beginning list...
INTEGRAL KEYS TO SOVEREIGNTY
• Humor and play! The sovereign individual is in Flow, fully engaged in the cosmic dance. Always new and filled with mystery, awe and gratitude.
• In order to be fully a man, a man needs to be a woman. In order to be fully a woman, a woman needs to be a man. This is what sovereignty asks of us.
• Sovereignty is love, or heart ignited full-blooded aliveness.
• Sovereignty necessitates removing the armor of the cocoon of ego-resistance in order to free up energy flows and consciousness.
• Resolve and recompense relationships without placation, bribery or idiot compassion.
• Transpersonal social skills involving inclusive language, win-win, visionary community building, conflict resolution and charm.
• Sovereign attitude is positive, upbeat, transcendent, metaview, non-complaining.
• When in difficulty and shadow focus on opportunity and learning by turning straw into gold.
• Use of poetry, art, dance etc…to remarry inner parents and inner King and Queen.
• Binaural, hemispheric synchronization practices and occupations.
• Heal the inner child, green light play, adventure, creativity and original thought.
• Re-programming limiting unconscious beliefs that undermine ones well-being and full blooded aliveness.
• Resolve conflicts, eliminate energy drains or leave negative people or situations.
• Accumulative finances; don’t spread oneself too thin; help others help themselves and establish their self-reliance.
• Stress reduction and play lifestyle…establishing balance between exertion and recovery.
• Sovereignty is “high” energy…so raise energy metabolism and detoxification.
• Remineralization, phytonutrients, antifinflammatory, antioxidant, enzyme rich diet.
• Improve serotonin, dopamine, PEA, glutamate and arginine.
• Build sex hormones, oxytocin, thyroid and adrenal glands; balance blood sugar.
• Repair GI tract, remove pathogens and build immune system.
• Use nature and elements, grounding, sunshine, water etc… for tuning in and revitalizing.
• Coordination practices, sports, games, risk, martial arts and physical novelty.
• Strength, endurance, aerobics, plus stretching the limits of the physical form.
• Focus on giving ones genius rather than codependent, needy giving and service.
 

[Francis]

Nice agenda. Eliminate energy drains. First we have to identify them. Then do a cost benefit analysis to determine what if anything we're getting back for our energy. It's analogous to having a household budget for money.

[Jana]

There might be such a thing as relationship permaculture design using a a bio-psycho-social map of living human systems that focuses on natural designs and offers whole new integral solutions to making the “I-We-It” work.

Where you can set out the areas of spiral dynamic color memes for the various regions of your life...
For example I was working at a red job place that had a veneer of yellow...
Now I am working at a blue job place with a veneer of orange...
So the next job I get I am aiming for a green workplace with a veneer of turquoise.

With relationship permaculture design you can place on your life design sheet...the main areas of relationship at work, play, family, and other kinds of social and entertainment involvements. See which areas are causing friction and wasting energy that could be put into establishing a more spiritually-emotionally and financially rewarding life. That is you can withdraw your energies and contributions from meme stages that are at odds with your stage level and its constellation of beliefs and motivations. Not that a little homeopathic dose of other memes lower on the scale is not good for sparking incentive and inquiry. But for the accumulation of en-thusiasum, evolution of consciousness and well-being we need to focus the majority of our living space in the higher meme regions of the chart and move away from memes that are obviously at odds with who we are.

Spiral Dyanamics Charts
http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/spiral_dynamics.jpg

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/104/288326085_9b6372b709_b.jpg




Hey Bogo has John Lash done an historical analysis of reincarnation doctrine? He would be the perfect person to write a book on this...he being into astrology, myth, history, politicialization of religion and use of myth in social control etc... I have written a little on this which he might like as seed material for a new work...I think this issue is radically important to propel us out of narcissistic uroborus and new age infantalism.


Also which use of spelling do people like best for Parcifal, Parsifal.
Wagner's spelling of Parsifal instead of the Parzival he had used up to 1877 is informed by an erroneous etymology of the name Percival deriving it from a supposedly Arabic origin, Fal Parsi meaning "pure fool"

[Francis]

I like the idea that the holy grail is another metaphor for the inner marrriage and for the hero that slays the dragon to marry the maiden and for the transmutation of lead (self-pity) into gold (Self realization). The dragon (reptile brain) holds the maiden (conscious fulfillment) hostage. Slaying the dragon means bridling the reptile brain and using its power for turning lead into gold.

The holy grail contains the blood (life force) of the saints, that's also the elixer vitae or Philosopher's Stone. Harnessing the reptile brain's power unleashes the abundance that is represented by the maiden (and the gold). This reinforces the self and allows for the expansion of the self into the mantle of the Self.

[Jana]

That was damn good dear boy...

Found a new fantastic thinker along the lines of Aton Wilson and Lash. I think this is the sufi that folks here were saying just died.

www.gyw.com/hakimbey/  —Peter Lamborn Wilson (born 1945), (Hakim Bey)
Green Hermeticism: Alchemy and Ecology by Peter Lamborn Wilson
Pirate Utopias by Peter Lamorn Wilson
Immediatism by Hakim Bey
T.A.Z.: The Temporary Autonomous Zone

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3cL1zAQry4




KW is doing 2 hours of Q&A in Boulder Aug 1st.

[henry]

inspired this afternoon to peruse my ancient copy ($1.95!) of Parzival. esalen friend joe campbell regarded the von eschenbach version as the great story of western civilization. "Uncle, what is it that troubles you?"....