Coward

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[Daniel]

Very recently I have been called (labeled) a coward by an old friend of many many years.

Someone who has also cited that this imposed disconnect...is my loss.

Same identical behavior pattern from other certain individuals (who have also been extremely aggressive in similar and even darker labeling).

Shocking how (supposedly) solid friendships are so easily tossed away like an old glove.

This is a very small core group of individuals enforcing this onslaught. A "Circle".

I will be exploring all this and lift the rock, exposing the bugs and worms underneath as they scamper away.

To kick it off, here is the most recent work by my youngest teenage daughter.

[Jane]

It is an awesome practice to stay "generative" when labels start getting passed around.  I only started to learn what being 'generative' looks like, and when I did I realized that I had been throwing the book at some relationships as much and as quickly as I had been feeling helpless to know how to proceed through difficult territory.  Verbal aikido is very good, as is accepting 200% responsibility for every conversation.....(as per Fred Kofman).

So what prompted your friend to call you a coward? and How did you feel when he/she put that over to you? 

The drawing of your daughter makes me feel 'abandoned' or lost.....what was going on for her when she drew it?

[Jana]

American's are trained in shitty behavior, its a contagion. The superego prefrontal lobe regulation of behavior here seems to be doing down hill fast, and people are naturally nasty unless you are giving them something...money, sex, food, complements or shiny things. In my experience, you have to step back and let the human race go...move forward in your own dharma, and then a new set of AMAZING people will come into your life that are more in tune with your higher direction.